How to Write a Maid of Honor Speech: Wording Examples

The maid of honor is pivotal to any wedding because she undertakes all the essential roles for the bride, including taking over the colossal stress of the wedding! But when all the planning is over and the wedding day arrives, you may feel even more pressure because now, you have to present a maid of honor speech.

Maid of Honor Speech Writing Prompts

The best place to start crafting your maid of honor speech is usually with a good brainstorming session. Use these questions and writing prompts to help you get the inspiration flowing:

• How did you meet the bride?
• What was your first impression of her?
• How has your relationship evolved over the years?
• What’s your favourite memory with the bride?
• What’s your funniest story about the bride?
• What are the bride’s best qualities? How does she demonstrate this?
• How would you describe the bride in 3 words?
• How did you meet her partner?
• What was your first impression of her partner?
• What are her partner’s best qualities? How do they demonstrate this?
• How would you describe her partner in 3 words?
• How did you know her partner was “the one”?
• How did her partner propose?
• What do you admire most about the couple?
• What milestones have the couple celebrated?
• How has their relationship evolved over the years?
• Have they overcome any challenges or hardships together?
• What makes their relationship unique?
• What’s your favourite memory with the couple?
• How have they made an impact on your life?
• What are your hopes for their future together as a married couple?

Once you’ve spent some time answering these prompts, you should have plenty of fantastic material to work with.

Maid Of Honor Speech Examples For Best Friend

The maid of honor will always be the best friend someone has. This includes not only the most important bridesmaid in the wedding, but also the best friend of the bride. A maid of honor speech can be difficult to write as it’s expected to be touching and heartfelt.

“Hi everyone. For those who haven’t yet had the chance to meet me, I’m (Name). (Bride) and I have been best friends since college, where we quickly bonded over our shared love for (insert hobbies/interests). 10 years later, and I couldn’t be happier to be standing here today to celebrate the amazing person (Bride) is, and the amazing life she and (Partner) have created together.

There are so many traits that I love about (Bride). First, her wacky sense of humour and ability to find the funny moment in any situation – like the time she (insert relevant anecdote). Secondly, her thoughtfulness and generosity, especially when she (insert relevant anecdote). And finally, her ability to light up any room she walks into. (Bride), you look so beautiful tonight.

Now, onto (Partner). My first impression of (Partner) was that he was incredibly kind, friendly, and humble. All of these things are still true, but as I’ve gotten to know him better, I’ve also seen how hilariously goofy he can be. I’ll never forget when he (insert relevant anecdote). It was then I knew that he was “the one” for my best friend.

(Bride) and (Partner), you complement each other perfectly, and it’s easy to see how crazy you are about each other. I’m so honoured to call you my friends, and I can’t wait to see how you navigate this exciting next chapter together. I’ll leave with you a quote to take with you through marriage: (insert relevant quote). Here’s to (Bride) and (Partner)!”

“If you haven’t gotten around to meeting me yet, my name is [Name]. [Bride’s Name] and I have been best friends for about 15 years. We met in high school gym class and didn’t really like each other at first. But as you can see, things changed for the better. And I can’t imagine not being here for this event. 

When I think about our friendship, I remember all the slumber parties, girl’s night out, shopping trips, and comforting each other when something went wrong. Well, these activities were pretty frequent until her lovely groom, and the love of her life came along!

[Groom], since the day I met you, I knew you were good for [Bride’s Name]. The way that you looked at her showed me that you truly loved her. I hope that you will treasure and respect my best friend as I have over the years. And of course, you will continue to love her all your life.

I raise my glass to the happy couple.”

“I would like to say today what a beautiful couple they make! People talk of fairytales, but real relationships take a lot of work. I must applaud and congratulate the bride and the groom on investing in each other and putting in the work to be the best possible versions of themselves for each other. This is true love, folks! A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.” 

A toast to my best friend and her best friend.

Love you both!”

Some say that love isn’t everything, but without love, everything is nothing. I think that’s a stupid cliché, but it sure makes for a nice ice-breaker when you need to deliver a toast.

[Bride’s name], I love you and I’m glad you asked me to be a bridesmaid. Being the maid of honor would have been too much of a strain on my schedule, so I’m glad you were able to understand why I had to decline; and instead appointed your second best friend, [name of maid of honor].

I’m joking of course. But I’m not trying to be funny when I say this: you and [groom’s name] were meant for each other. I knew this when you two first starting seeing each other; and it just became clearer and clearer over time. You are two of a kind; and there is simply no better match for you guys other than each other.

Congratulations again. I love you both. To your health and to a long, loving marriage. Cheers!

I was told that anyone can deliver a toast tonight, so that’s exactly what I’m going to do.

But before I do that, I want to voice my concern about the maid of honor selection process. I’m still not sure how I wasn’t picked, since I am clearly [name of bride]’s best friend. The process must have been rigged; and I can only hope this matter will be investigated.

But in all seriousness, I’m just happy to be here today and to be in the wedding party. I love you both, [bride’s name and groom’s name]. And I hope the two of you have a long, loving, and health marriage for years to come.

To the bride and groom. Cheers!

Has anyone ever seen such a lovely bride? I’m going to try not to get emotional, but it is hard not to when my best friend is finally tying the knot with such a wonderful man.

I still remember when you first told me about [groom’s name]. My thought was this: men come and go. Who knows if this will last or not, but for now, he seems to be making her very happy.

After the weeks and months passed and the relationship held strong, I knew this wasn’t just another boyfriend. I knew this wasn’t just a fling. This was a solid, lasting relationship. A match between two people who truly loved each other; and who very well may spend the rest of their lives together.

And, now, here I am today, witnessing the final step. The biggest commitment two individuals could make to each other. My best friend and this man—who has transformed her life for the better in so many ways—are finally getting married.

I love you both and hope that you have a long and happy marriage. To the bride and groom. Cheers!

Short Best Friend Maid Of Honor Speech Samples

Here are a few good basic sample maid of honor speeches. Remember, any variation to these examples are welcome, so let your special personality shine through and make it your own!

Hello, everyone. I’m the one who first knew that (bride’s name) will marry (groom’s name) and they will live happily ever after! Believe me, this silly girl who had no idea what love was, when it hit her, she fell hard. And (groom) didn’t waste any time from sweeping her off her feet. You two would make a bestselling romantic novel and I wish your fairy tale would always be full of happiness and love. Cheers!

I met (bride) and instantly connected with her. And then started the ritual of late-night movie sessions, Wal-Mart runs and many criminal activities! Wink! She became my partner of crime and today she has become (groom’s) life partner. May your partnership grow stronger and healthier with every passing day. 

I hated (bride) at first sight. She loved Jacob and I loved Edward. She loved Batman and I loved Superman. But then I discovered that neither Jacob nor Batman are that bad and she found out that even she can’t resist the appeal of Edward and Superman. And from that day onward, we became the besties who are always joined by the hip. And even you (groom) can’t separate us! 

Hi, I am (your name) and I have seen the whole love drama that took place between (bride) and the (groom). And believe me, I wished many times to smack both their heads and tell them to finally say the three magical words to each other and tie the knot already but these two took their sweet time. Now that they have finally tied the knot, I wish you both all the happiness of the world and warn you to never let a day go without expressing your love for each other.

Maid Of Honor Speech Samples For Sister

A maid of honor speech is a way to show support for your little sister on her big day. The big day is her wedding day and this could be her most important day ever. In your maid of honor speech, you can congratulate your sister on the big day and for being happy. Your speech should contain some funny, personal, and touching phrases. You might also want to incorporate the inspirational quotes with your sister’s love life and show how they can help her in the future.

“Hi everyone. I wanted to start by thanking you all for being here today to celebrate this amazing couple. As most of you know, I’m (Bride’s) little sister, (Name). 

I think we can all agree that (Bride) has a personality like no other. She’s outspoken, feisty, and stubborn – but also the most caring, loyal, and funniest person I’ve ever known. Growing up, we were like two peas in a pod. We were always getting into trouble and causing mischief together – and truthfully, not much has changed! I’ll never forget the time we (insert relevant anecdote), or the time we (insert relevant anecdote). It’s memories like these that make me so thankful to have (Bride) as a sister.

I used to wonder if there would ever be a guy brave enough to handle (Bride). Well, my sister has just tied the knot, and I think she’s found her perfect match in (Partner). (Partner), I couldn’t have chosen anyone better for my big sister. You’re kind, patient, and just the right amount of crazy to fit into our family – as demonstrated by the time you (insert relevant anecdote). Most importantly, you love my sister for who she is – stubbornness and all.

Your commitment to each other inspires me every day, and watching your relationship grow over the years has been so special to witness. I wish you both nothing but the best for the future, and I know you’re going to have some unforgettable adventures together. So, with that, I’d like to invite everyone to raise their glasses for a toast. Here’s to the happy couple!”

“So, my sister is getting married today, and I’ll admit I was a bit surprised when she asked me to be the maid of honor because she’s always telling me off! And she has tons of friends that she could’ve chosen. But I know she does it because she loves me as I love her. And I am honored to be here to celebrate these two beautiful souls.

I’ve emulated her my whole life, from prom dresses to hairstyles to favorite books. I’m sure this comes as no surprise to most of you. {giggles} So, I’ve never really been good about speaking in public; it’s pretty terrifying. But I think this is the part of the speech that I am supposed to tell some embarrassing story about [Bride’s Name}, but I realized she has a lot more dirt on me, so we’ll just skip that part.

Today, my sister & lifelong mentor looks like a fairytale princess, and I wish her all the happiness in the world.

Please raise your glasses and join me in a toast. Love is a force that’s more impressive than any other because it’s invisible, it can’t be seen, but it can transform you in a single moment, and it will offer you more joy than any material possession ever could. To the bride & groom! CHEERS!”

Even though Sarah is my younger sister, the truth is, I’ve always looked up to her.

Growing up, Lisa felt like more of my shadow than my best friend. But over the years, we’ve set aside our arguments over clothes and nail polish, and have found common ground through navigating our careers, finding love, and most importantly…our unwavering love for the Backstreet Boys.

As the younger sister, I’ve always admired Beth and tried to be just like her. There was the time, I begged my mom to make me the same Halloween costume as her and the time I auditioned for the softball team, even though I hate sports. But I’ve never wanted to be more like my sister than today with how happy and deeply in love she looks.

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